Toddler tantrums and preschooler tantrums is not easy to tame. There is no simple answer to that one. But there are certain things we can do to reduce the frequency and severity of the episodes. Here are three tips to help avoid these tantrums:
1. spend little time with your preschooler. Let me explain. They don't care about an hour with you all in one breath. They would much rather have 10 lots of three minutes to three hours.Now I know this makes parents but think about it this way, if you can avoid the tantrums then you really are saving themselves time and unnecessary stress, don't you?
2. If you see next to try out as fast as you can use the "distraction" tantrum. Something like "Oh, look there. This was Humphrey bear? "nothing to take your child's attention from what the problem is. Here's the problem with tantrum: when the child becomes angry, they actually lose more than 25% of their intelligence. That's why you never can reason with angry people. They produce some chemicals in the brain to function properly. The physical changes that occur in the human body. And, of course, they don't understand what's going on. They get Madder and Madder and actually can't stop being angry.This is not a good place for our toddler or preschooler in general but because they are so young and immature, they have no idea how to handle it. And here's where we need to help them deal with their feelings, which brings me to my next point.
3. discuss with your preschooler what they are feeling. If you have Growl at them when they are in full tantrum you will not achieve anything. They can't hear you correctly, because they have lost more than 25% of their limited intelligence. It is not possible for them to hear or understand you.The only thing that they can respond to this hearing you say that you understand their problem now listen to this; You might not agree with their warped mindset, however the problem is real. And that's what parents need to implement.
Once we begin to listen to their problems, we will begin to resolve issues. I'm not saying you should give them, but you have to listen to them children easy for someone to learn to express their feelings and they don't have the eloquence of words, so they throw a tantrum.
Learn how to work with their tantrums and they will stop very quickly. child just wants to know that you understand their problem so understand the problem and toddler tantrums and preschooler tantrums will stop soon enough.