If you have children under the age of five years, you've probably experienced the Almighty toddler tantrum, and how they experience. You know, the ones where they can hold their breath in anger, yell, scream, kick, throw things or just screaming at the top of their lungs, if someone kills them. If you don't have one, then Count your blessings. This is the most insane thing you can ever imagine. One minute you are perfectly happy sweet child and then the next minute you control a little maniac at your fingertips. So how do you deal with full-size tantrums? Is there a secret that will allow the parent to do so through this nightmare and still got charged, on the other side?
Working with full-size tantrums may be quite a complex situation, and that it would be better to understand the reason that this is happening to your child. There could be many reasons for this behavior from;the need for independence, feeling out of control too many restrictions, overstimulated, bored or tired, hungry. These tantrums may begin as early as one year and can go well past the age of four.
First of all, keep in mind that all children are different from others that might work for one child can only exacerbate the issue is key to successfully engaged? toddler tantrums is to stick with it, no matter how hard, don't give up.
Working with full-size tantrums, here are a few tips:
Stay calm and speak softly, get mad will only make it harder to calm down your child
Don't punish your baby, it's very risky to move when things are so passionate to begin with, you can easily lose control
Pick up your child to move them in a safe place, and then hold your baby tightly to keep them from injuring their self and in most cases the kid calm down when
Divert the child activities that will take your mind off and threw them in the tantrum
Try to entertain your baby, use funny songs and stupid character voices not seriously their tantrum, and they will tend to lose interest quickly
Compliance with a time out, this will give the child the soothing, you gotta ignore the drama
Not to give in to their demands, it only allows them to believe that they can get their way using unacceptable behavior and they will continue to do so as they grow
Dealing with toddler tantrums, how to avoid them:
Avoid the 4 main causes of tantrums; hunger, boredom, or over excitement and boredom; you can do this, just to make sure your child is well served, healthy snacks, stable sleeping schedule and try to get the books or toys that stimulate their mind.
Try to stick with conventional, for some kids, this really helps reduce tantrums
Childproof your home, this will keep you from ever have to say "no" for your child
Let your child have a choice and decision making with trivia, how to choose the clothes in the morning or what they want for starters
Compromise and say yes, when you can, it takes off the edge of negative for some children