That the mother had been in that situation? The child screamed and cried, arms flailing, legs feet? And what mother do? There are so many well-meaning tips out there "experts", grandparents and friends and even passers-by if tantrum takes place in the most feared: the PUBLIC!

So are you doing?

We've all been down this road. My 5 children my 3rd and 5th were those who had tantrums. This is really how parents view the tantrum that dictates how parents respond or react. Maybe you faith (false, as it is), the child tries to manipulate parent to child, why? If so, how to view it, you will react.How you would react? perhaps bashing or otherwise censure of the child. Maybe you've been told to ignore a tantrum and it disappears.

The truth is that the Child has little experience with emotion and how to handle them.When they feel the emotion and don't know what to do with it, they cry is no different than when they were babies who couldn't put his emotions/needs words. The more they become frustrated, the worse it gets. If these requirements are not satisfied with that immediately when you full tantrum.

They are young.They only had that in a year or two of experience in this world and it can cause emotions. We then expect them to act wisely, know-how and maturity? Or all the other things in their little world, understand that this is a new experience and want to learn more about it?

If your child is frustrated, give them the words to apply to the emotions. " Aww you sad, aren't you? "or" it's so frustrating when you can't get blocks remain stacked, isn't it? "and always helps when talking to hug those things. Responding immediately, giving them love, displayed with your words that you understand their feelings and thus help them understand their feelings and words to express them you teach them to handle their emotions better as a child and later as adults. (You hate adult blow up in anger instead speak? chances are they never learned how to express yourself.)

"So if a tantrum because they don't get their way? I coddle them then too???" Firstly it is not coddling it training/education. And Yes, you continue to train them at that time too. (After all, who wants to adults, who cannot handle, don't get your way? I knew some of them, and they are even less fun than tantrum throwing baby!) Very strongly, but lovingly saying, "I know that you [sad, angry, hurt, disappointed, etc.]you can't have that, but the shout will not work. "and then take their hands hug and within walking distance of the item or any frustrating them.

I have a 3-year-old.We go through this.We live through him. I am a mother.It's my duty to be mature, the two of us.Angry puts me at its level. ignoring its never teach it and will not be building trust between us as it stands right now, it gets frustrating when I say "no", but now it comes to me (or siblings) cried and said "I'm sad, and we tell her we understand and it's going to be OK and we move on ... it's just as hard as you do this.








Michelle cannon is the mother of five children, she teaches parents since 1993 and currently teaches natural parents you can find more of her articles http://primalmommies.blogspot.com in